A Game of Thrones
‘The old Kings of winter are down there, sitting on their thrones with stone wolves at their feet and iron swords across their laps, but it’s not them I’m afraid of. I scream that I’m not a Stark, that this isn’t my place, but it’s no good, I have to go anyway. It gets darker and darker, until I want to scream’.
I don’t want to touch on the early books too much because Jon’s character is so well known – I’m sooo close to the end of this series now, with Tyrion and Sansa to go- and his character arc post wildlings is the interesting part. From the beginning, Jon is kind, listens and gets involved in what he thinks is right. He does, however, have the impulsive privileged nature that comes of growing up Stark and it is only through the different characters he meets that he becomes aware of this. The early books are really his journey into a kind of adulthood. Jon frequently references his lack of place and love, yet he struggles with the separation from his family. He chastises himself whenever he thinks of himself as a Stark but struggles to place himself anywhere. He resents and regrets joining the watch:
‘All the places that Jon would never see. The world was down that road… and he was here.’
We see Jon’s struggle between his highborn entitlement and developing understanding that he has had it comparatively easy, for example, these quotes which are just a page apart:
‘Jon’s rage was such that he would have smashed it all in an instant, and the world be damned.’ ‘Jon let out a deep sigh. ‘You have the right of it. I was acting the boy.’
Jon’s friendship with Sam helps him greatly and it is Sam’s clear mind and tranquil nature that often calm Jon’s quick temper. Ghost is also a soothing influence on Jon, and we see their connection growing with Jon’s sense of identity: ‘And suddenly Ghost was back, stalking softly between two weirwoods. White fur and red eyes, Jon realised, disquieted. Like the trees…’
Aemon is another much needed peaceful presence and his words often provide the push that force Jon to step outside his own self-indulgence and anger at the world. I love this link between Jon and one of his last Targ relatives, and the epiphany type moments Aemon gives Jon. He is the past and he is also a projection of the decisions and unrest Jon will come to face: ‘for love is the bane of honor, the death of duty.’ ‘Wind and words. We are only human, and the gods have fashioned us for love. That is our great glory, and our great tragedy.’ It is Aemon who truly makes Jon realise that he is not and will not be the only one to suffer, and that in making decisions based on love or duty, he is amongst everyone who has lived. This is the human condition.
By the end of GOT Jon has gained insight and let go of some of his pride, but he is still struggling with future and place. Upon being given Mormonts sword: ‘He knew he should be honoured, and he was, and yet…’ ‘He in not my father. I will not forget him, no matter how many swords they give me.’
‘My place is here…where is yours, boy?’ ‘I have no place, Jon wanted to say, I’m a bastard, I have no rights, no name, no mother, and now not even a father.’ The words would not come. ‘I don’t know.’ ‘When the dead men come hunting in the night, do you think it matters who sits on the Iron Throne?’
I think Jon’s storyline is priming us for his role in destroying the white walkers, rather than an ending with him as King. This would be too obvious a choice for GRRM’s style. Jon has the desire and ability to protect and fight for people, qualities of a King, but he represents more a messenger or prophetic figure.
A Clash of Kings
GOT was about shaping Jon up for life and giving him some harsh messages, and as ACOK begins, we see that he has chosen duty and internalised life in the brotherhood: ‘And if it did trouble me, what might I do bastard as I am?’ ‘What will you do?’, Mormont asked. ‘Bastard as you are?’ ‘Be troubled. And keep my vows.’
Jon is no different to the rest of the Stark children in turning to the memory of their father in times of uncertainty. Jon begins to deal with some significant challenges and moral dilemmas as he goes undercover with the wildlings. When told to kill Ygritte: ‘He could give her a quick clean death, at least. He was his father’s son. Wasn’t he? Wasn’t he?’
Whilst he won’t admit it, even to himself, Jon resonates with the wildlings and feels more at home here than he ever did at the wall. Wildlings represent true freedom and highlight harshly the limitations of life in Westeros: titles and prejudice, class, and the rules that discard the lowborn whilst binding the highborn to a life pre-determined. Through Mance’s story, we are given easter eggs towards Jons future, and I do believe that Jon will likely end his story back at the wall or beyond rather than Winterfell and royalty:
‘He loved the wild better than the Wall. It was in his blood. He was wildling born, taken as a child when some raiders were put to the sword.’ ‘He never learned how to obey.’ ‘No more than me’, said Jon quietly.’
It is beyond the wall that Jon first wargs, and Bran communicates with him:
‘The weirwood had his brother’s face. Had his brother always had three eyes? Not always, came the silent shout. Not before the crow… Death, he knew. He was smelling death. Don’t be afraid, I like it in the dark. No one can see you, but you can see them. But first you have to open your eyes. See? Like this. And the tree reached down and touched him’.
This interaction is actually insanely early on in the books in terms of future plot and the true fantasy elements kicking in, and it’s why I love GRRM wizard man so truly. Everything is so crafted, so carefully set up. Jon himself is one of the more simplistic or ‘human’ characters in my opinion, but he is rooted in so much of the myth, magic, prophecies to come. In this regard, Jon represents many religious messengers or ‘chosen one’ figures. To reference the show for a moment, I think it did such a bad job of ending with Jon beyond the wall, as it felt so ill placed. In the books, however, there is already enough evidence that with the wildlings, should he let himself, Jon could genuinely feel the freest and most content.
A Storm of Swords
Wildling life & Ygritte:
‘The wilding blood is the blood of the First Men, the same blood that flows in the veins of the starks. As to a crown, do you see one?’ ‘I left the next morning… for a place where a kiss was not a crime, and a man could wear any cloak he chose’ (Mance).
‘He came across a dozen men pelting one another with snow. Playing, Jon thought in astonishment, grown men playing like children, throwing snowballs the way Bran and Arya once did, and Robb and me before them’. (ADWD)
Mance’s life signifies some of Jon’s deep desires, an alternative life and self where he could genuinely let himself be free. Perhaps the greatest change of lifestyle for Jon is the realisation that bastard is not a concept or a sin here, particularly as he is growing fond of Ygritte:
‘You are a free man now, and Ygritte is a free woman. What dishonour if you lay together?’ ‘I might get her with child.’ ‘Aye, I’d hope so. A strong son or a lively girl kissed by fire, and where’s the harm in that?’
Jon grows to love Ygritte and it really shakes his morals and beliefs. ‘It was easy to lose your way beyond the wall. Jon did not know that he could tell honor from shame anymore, or right from wrong. Father forgive me’.
GRRM’s decision to go beyond the wall let’s us see so delightfully how Westeros class and moral conduct can come with shame and fear- linked often to religion as it is in our own world. Jon’s shame is less about what he believes at this point and is more the indoctrination and uncertainty of going against everything he has always been taught. Jon thinks like a highborn lord despite being shunned and poorly treated by those of his class his whole life. He is stuck between worlds. In Ygritte he is experiencing a woman who completely rejects such codes and any armour of propriety: ‘We look up at the same stars and see such different things.’
Jon is learning that there is an alternative way of thinking, a different way of living, and he is learning about his history from a completely new perspective:
‘You’re the ones who steal. You took the whole world, and built the Wall t’keep the free folk out.’ ‘Did we?’ Sometimes Jon forgot how wild she was, and then she would remind him.’ ‘The gods made the earth for all men t’share. Only when the kings come with their crowns and steel swords, they claimed it was all theirs.’
I don’t believe Jon could hear and really listen to all this- coming from someone he has fallen in love with-without it impacting his core. This perspective will make him a great leader and bring him a desire to affect change.
‘I was a man of the Night’s watch.’ Was, he heard himself say. What was he now? He did not want to look at that.’
As his feelings for Ygritte deepen, he dreams of showing her Winterfell. ‘The dream was sweet…but Winterfell would never be his to show’. This feels prophetic, and I wonder if it’s setting up to foreshadow a future with Dany or Val. I also enjoy how Jon is beginning to parallel Sam in his relationship with Gilly, but also how Rhaegar probably felt with Lyanna, another ‘starcrossed lover’. Regardless, at this point, Jon has so much self-doubt and loathing due to his belief that he’s a traitor, that he’s losing himself. ‘He had no sense of the direwolf, not even in his dreams. It made him feel as if part of himself had been cut off. He did not want to die alone.’
A key moment is when Jon tries to convince himself that he can kill the old wilding man, but cannot, and flees instead. He sees Bran’s wolf at this moment; Bran is relatively linked to Jon. ‘I am going home, he told himself. But if that was true, why did he feel so hollow?’ Jon’s death and warging are also hinted at from quite early on, for example, when he’s told of Bran’s murder: ‘I saw a direwolf, a grey direwolf…grey…it knew me. If Bran was dead, could some part of him live on in his wolf?’ He also dreams of Brans wolf in the crypts, after Ygrittes death. I wonder if this is the hint that Bran will be the one to tell Jon of his parentage? Via dream, via a messenger?
Leadership & Stannis
Ygritte’s death and Jon’s experiences until this point mark the loss of any remaining arrogance and youth. He is changed from this point. ‘There are older men, Jon wanted to say, better men. I am still as green as summer grass. I’m wounded, and I stand accused of desertion.’
Jon also has some little easter egg/future hint moments wrapped us as funny throwaway thoughts. I particularly enjoyed this one, when he is attempting to fight the wildlings: ‘It was a futile thought. He might as well wish fo another thousand men, and maybe a dragon or three.’
It is lovely to see that when Jon is given responsibility of the wall, of the battles, that he respects the seriousness of this, the responsibility and does not feel certain that he should have it. He has been humbled and yet his words and actions show him to be a ready leader. He gives rousing speeches and can genuinely rally the men of the watch.
The arrival of Stannis and his offer cause Jon to doubt his identity even further.
‘I loved Robb, loved all of them… I never wanted any harm to come to any of them, but it did. And now there’s only me. All he had to do was say the word, and he would be Jon Stark, and nevermore a Snow… All he had to do was… forsake his bows again.’
It is because he is a true Stark (to a fault) that- possibly to his detriment- he won’t lose his honour for his name. This is the most difficult decision Jon has made and is very telling of what has been and has become of his character. He experiences every emotion, every possibility, goes against his deepest desires and instincts. I think again, he is likely to end up beyond the wall, because every time he imagines lord of Winterfell it comes with guilt, shame put on him by Cat, grief for his brothers. It is tainted. I think by the time he finds out Lyanna is his mother, we will have had the great war, and he will be so different that a lordship or Kingship won’t be possible anymore. We do, however, get to see in this chapter, what Jon wants. What he would have chosen and has buried: a desire for love.
‘A son was something Jon Snow had never dared dream of, since he decided to live his life on the wall. I could name him Robb.’ ‘I have always wanted it, he thought, guiltily. May the gods forgive me.’
He nearly falters, and it is Ghost- who usually acts as Jons compass and guide- who makes his decision. Ghost returns upon this moment and Jon again reflects on his resemblance to a weirwood.
‘He belongs to the old gods, this one… five that were grey and black and brown, for the five Stark, and one white, as white as snow. He had his answer then’.
A Dance With Dragons
This book shows Jon grieving, isolated and warging frequently. Jon still senses Summer nearby, and these references to Bran are frequent enough that I do think they’ll have some sort of significant future interaction, especially since Sam knows where Bran is going. Jon is struggling with his responsibility and faces great consequence. He feels very isolated by his choices and difficult, often seemingly cold, decisions he has made, and is feeling the lack of warmth:
‘It was company he craved, not food. A cup of wine with Maester Aemon, some quiet words with Sam’.
Jon is also beginning to really understand his power and the impact it could’ve had had he been recognised by Stannis:
‘He could not help but wonder if the girl’s answer might have been different if the letter had been sealed with a direwolf instead of a crowned stag, and signed by Jon Stark, Lord of Winterfell. It is too late for such misgivings. You made your choice.’
I think this realisation will be important post resurrection. He also has Ned’s assurance and way of speaking to those higher than him when he believes he is right, for instance, trying to convince Stannis to pardon Mance ‘Your grace is mistaken.’ You know nothing, Jon Snow, Ygritte used to say, but he had learned. You do not become King-Beyond-the-Wall because your father was’. Again, this is probably another wee significant quote for life post white walker’s- Jon will help to create the new world but will not feature in it as a Kingly figure. He doubts the whole concept of royalty and succession at this point, understanding and respecting freedom: ’You can give them land and mercy, but the free folk choose their own Kings, and it was Mance they chose, not you.’
Jon does have a tendency to be chosen when he doubts himself, and he is someone who is admired and respected, once people truly understand him. It may be that he almost replaces Mance to act as some kind of chosen wildling leader/king.
White Walkers & future:
Battles had been fought at Winterfell before, but never one without a Stark on one side or the other.’
‘We have seen the face of our real foe, a dead white face with bright blue eyes. The free folk have seen that face as well. Stannis is not wrong in this. We must make common cause with the wildlings.’
In sacrificing his proposed lordship, Jon focuses on the white walker cause, and really begins to take on the saviour/messenger arc. However, Jon’s decision to ally with the wildlings is not an entirely positive one, and he’s paralleling Dany now in trying to save and feed them all without resources because he is a good person.
We start to get hints that he will die following his isolation, power, and unpopular decisions, particularly from Melisandre and the fading distinctions Jon feels between his human and warging self. Melisandre further confuses Jon in predicting Arya’s danger. Jon does not fully believe in prophecy, but this is enough to get under his skin, and as he grows lonelier, he strives evermore to reconnect with the family he has left. He appreciates Stannis’ promise to rematch Arya if he finds her, but Stannis leaving for the cause of Winterfell when Jon is left is such a desolate situation is deeply hard for him to handle. This is heightened further by Alys Karstark:
‘The girl smiled in a way that reminded Jon so much of his little sister that it almost broke his heart.’‘
Jon realises that in his depression and desperation his decisions are becoming compromised or at least unlike him. He must rely Mance and Melisandre to save Arya when he doesn’t trust them. He does, however, trust Val, giving her the huge responsibility of treating with Tormund to support the cause against the whites, understanding that the alternative is thousands of wildling whites- and also hoping to save some of the wilding lives he has grown to respect.
Jon has made the decision to save the wildings from Hardhome, accepting that this decision will be unpopular, will risk himself and his men, may risk death. And yet, the letter from Ramsey is the final straw in Jon’s restraint and he makes a decision very unlike any he would have previously:
‘The Night’s Watch will make for Hardhome. I ride to Winterfell alone, unless…’ Jon paused. ‘…is there any man here who will stand with me?’ The roar was all he could have hoped for. I have my swords, though Jon Snow, and we are coming for you, Bastard.’
This plan is Jon’s last before the betrayal and his death. A resurrection is absolutely coming and GRRM is setting up the reader to believe he will head towards Westeros and the Iron Throne in later books, but I’m excited to see how life beyond the wall becomes endgame, and how events with Jon’s parentage, Dany and the white walkers come to pass.
Feminism & Val
‘By right Winterfell should go to my sister Sansa.’
Jon recognises this after making his choice to remain at the wall, and his time with both Ygritte and Val has shifted his perspective on a ‘women’s place’. Just as he doubts the line of succession, Jon is also beginning to doubt the fixed place of men and women in such a patriarchal world. He is hardly feminist champion at this point but recognises the power women have: ‘The women are the strong ones’. He has always had this in him, with his strong love and bond for Arya, but he needed Ygritte and the push from highborn customs to set him up for whatever will come to pass with Val or Dany. It is also a nice little bit of growth, considering Lyanna was known to be so free thinking. Jon wants Val and marrying her is amongst his regrets after rejecting Stannis. He deems her to be ‘Lonely and lovely and lethal’ and feels connected to her in their loneliness and lack of place.
I think the traditional life of marriage, children and lordship is not for Jon, but we may get a subversion of this trope in the form of a wildling relationship. I think Jon is too disconnected from any Targaryen side to want to take ‘his place’ as ruler, and I think if anything, Jon’s role will be to essentially end the Targ line of succession before moving on to his new life.
‘Ghost emerged from between two trees, with Val beside him. They look as though they belong together… It had been a long while since Jon Snow had seen a sight so lovely.’ ‘All that true enough, but the wildling woman was so much more. She had proved that by finding Tormund where seasoned rangers of the watch had failed. She may not be a princess, but she would make a worthy wife for any lord.’
I love Jon and Val, the parallels and subversion of old princess in tower traits. I love reading about love, desire, tension, hints of what may be or could become, star-crossed lovers. I can’t tell if this is setting up to show that Jon is nearly ready to meet someone knew, i.e., Dany, or if Jon and Val will be end game if he returns beyond the wall. However, this is one of the main reasons I’ve loved doing this read by POV. I never picked up at all on first read- albeit 10 years ago- how much Jon’s future is linked to beyond the wall. I think it’s easy to get excited by Jon/Rhaegar/Lyanna/Dany and almost hope that he becomes King at first. But GRRM is showing us that if anything, ruling is a dangerous burden. He is setting up for a new kind of world and I’m excited to see where that will lead our characters.